‘He Was A Good Man But I Wanted More’ — Shaffy Bello Speaks On Her Divorce
Nollywood actress, Shaffy Bello, disclosed that she left her husband because she wanted to satisfy her ambitious dreams.
She made this known while speaking in a chat with media entrepreneur, Chude Jideonwo.
Bello, who grew up in the US, spoke about how her marriage ended five years ago and what she had to face.
She said she filed for the divorce because she was too overwhelmed by the burden of motherhood.
“I wanted to spread my wings. I felt like I was pregnant and I couldn’t have a child. I felt like my wings were closed in and I was boxed in. I was yearning for more but didn’t realise what sacrifice will come with that,” she said.
“I paid the price of [not] having a connection with my children. Coming to Nigeria, I would stay in my room sometimes and cry, like, ‘oh my gosh, what am I doing?’ I left them. My daughter was 13 and my son was 11.
“Now mind you, I was a hands-on mother: come home, take a nap, set the table, all of that. And I mean, quit my job just to raise my children. That’s why I only had two. So when they grew up to a certain extent, I went back to work.
“I sacrificed everything because I believe that they didn’t ask to be born. I wanted to give them everything. Leaving them was a huge sacrifice, but it turned around for good. I came back and wanted to be a Yoruba actor.
“I found my calling; paid the price of divorce five years ago. He was a good man but I got to a place where I wanted more. I had to make that choice to focus on what I wanted. I’ve worked too hard and I’m sacrificing nothing.”
Bello’s first entertainment scene was when she featured in ‘Love Me Jeje’, a 1997 hit song by Seyi Sodimu.
Ever since then, the actress became a regular face in several Yoruba and English language films/TV series like ‘When Love Happens’, ‘Gbomo Gbomo Express’, ‘Taste of Love’, ‘Chief Daddy’, ‘Elevator Baby’, ‘The Men’s Club’, and ‘Your Excellency’.
